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They say your friends are the family you choose. You have the freedom to decide who you want to be part of your tribe, who you want to call “your people.” Your choice of friends have an immense impact on your life. The best ones help you to be the person you want to be. They hear your unspoken words. They love you, flaws and all.

In this time and age when everything moves and shifts at a fast pace, friendships are sometimes taken for granted. Saying “they’ll understand I’m just busy right now” is slowly becoming a lame excuse that, quite honestly, sucks.

Everyone is busy. Everyone has things they need to prioritize. But you should never be too busy for friends the same way they should never be too preoccupied for you. Remember, even the strongest and longest friendships require sustenance.

Here are ways to strengthen your relationship with your friends further.

 

Be conscious of your friendships.

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It happens. You get so busy with your personal and professional life, and you forget you have friends.

It’s okay if your besties get bumped down on your list of priorities. However, it’s never okay to treat them as nuisances when you’re busy and they seek you out. Keep in mind that it’s not only you who are juggling multiple responsibilities at the same time.

You can’t be too busy to return a phone call or to send a reply in your group chat. Sometimes, an emoji is enough to convey to them that even with your tight schedule, you’re still aware of what’s happening in and out of your lives.

 

Learn to listen to unspoken words.

When your friends have a problem, you don’t necessarily have to be the problem-solver. More often than not, they only need a shoulder to lean on or someone they can temporarily depend on to pick up the slack while they fix the problem.

This is quite easy if your friends straight away tell you about their hardships. However, some people hesitate reaching out to their friends because they don’t want to impose. As such, you have to learn to listen to an unspoken plea for help.

Look for telltale signs like mood swings and restlessness. Also, don’t hesitate to directly ask your friends what’s bothering them. Sometimes, that’s the only opening your pals need to unburden their troubles.

 

Help as much as you can.

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Being available for your friends doesn’t only count during times of hardships. The little things matter a lot as well. Find ways to help them breathe easier, especially when you know they are knee-deep with responsibilities and obligations.

For example, if you have some spare time and your friends need to work long hours, you can babysit their children or pick them up from school. Or if they are sick, you can run errands for them or bring them a home-cooked meal.

 

Have open communication all the time.

Lack of communication can affect friendships, especially these days when there are tons of ways to instantly reach out to them.

If you all can’t hang out face-to-face, do it virtually. Send an email. Initiate a conference call. Start a group chat. The point is to actively keep in touch with everyone even if it’s just to say hello.

 

Be a voice of reason.

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There’s a line between supporting and indulging your friends. Encourage them to follow their dreams. Push them to get the job done.

Giving them your support is vital because it’s a scary thing to put yourself out there. Having said that, it’s equally important to be a voice of reason when you think they’re making a mistake. Just make sure you’re giving them valuable and constructive advice rather than justtelling them they’re wrong without any further explanation.

 

Accept their flaws.

As the adage says, nobody’s perfect. For sure, you have mannerisms or characteristics that annoy other people. Your friends have flaws, too. If their flaw is more of a quirk and not a bad attitude, then don’t fret about it.

It can be annoying, but it’s part of the package. You wouldn’t want someone to tell you to change your personality just because of your annoying trait, right? It’s the same thing with your friends. You can’t expect and have them change their personality just to suit your needs.

 

Be realistic.

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A lot of times, conflicts between friends happen because of unrealistic expectations. While it’s heartwarming to be appreciated for your kind gestures, you shouldn’t expect your friends to always thank you for all the things you do for them.

In the first place, if you only do good things just to get rewarded, then you’re doing them for the wrong reasons.

In the real world, people forget important events. They miss dates and celebrations.  They make mistakes and don’t always do what you wish and think they should do. And that should be okay. You need to stop expecting people to act the way you expect.

Friendships make the world a great place to live in. Here are beautiful quotes about friendships you can share with your besties.

 

40 Truthful Quotes about Friendship

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow.” – William Shakespeare

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“The great thing about new friends is that they bring new energy to your soul.” – Shanna Rodriguez

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“Anybody can sympathise with the sufferings of a friend, but it requires a very fine nature to sympathise with a friend’s success.” – Oscar Wilde

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“I would rather walk with a friend in the dark, than alone in the light.” – Helen Keller

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“Sitting silently beside a friend who is hurting may be the best gift we can give.” – Unknown

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. Love risks degenerating into obsession, friendship is never anything but sharing.” – Elie Wiesel

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.” – Walter Winchell

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“True friendship comes when the silence between two people is comfortable.” – David Tyson

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another: ‘What! You too? I thought I was the only one.” – C.S. Lewis

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“In my friend, I find a second self.” – Isabel Norton

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.” – Martin Luther King Jr.

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“A friend to all is a friend to none.” – Aristotle

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“Friends are medicine for a wounded heart, and vitamins for a hopeful soul.” – Steve Maraboli

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“‘We’ll be friends forever, won’t we, Pooh?’ Asked Piglet. ‘Even longer,’ Pooh answered.” – Winnie The Pooh

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“The only way to have a friend is to be one.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“A true friend is someone who will always love you — the imperfect, the confused, the wrong you — because that is what people are supposed to do.” – R. J. L.

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“The best mirror is an old friend.” – George Herbert

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“Some souls just understand each other upon meeting.” – N.R. Hart

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“If you wanna find out who’s a true friend, screw up or go through a challenging time … then see who sticks around.” – Karen Salmonsohn

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“A friend is someone who makes it easy to believe in yourself.” – Heidi Wills

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“Some people arrive and make such a beautiful impact on your life, you can barely remember what life was like without them.” – Anna Taylor

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“There is nothing better than a friend, unless it is a friend with chocolate.” – Linda Grayson

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“We’ll be friends ’til we’re old and senile. … Then we’ll be new friends!” – Anonymous

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“You have been my friend,” replied Charlotte. “That in itself is a tremendous thing.” – E.B. White, Charlotte’s Web

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“A friend who understands your tears is much more valuable than a lot of friends who only know your smile.” – Anonymous

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“The most beautiful discovery true friends make is that they can grow separately without growing apart.” – Elizabeth Foley

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“Friends should be like books, few, but hand-selected.” – C.J. Langenhoven

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“A strong friendship doesn’t need daily conversation or being together. As long as the relationship lives in the heart, true friends never part.” – Anonymous

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“I get by with a little help from my friends.” – The Beatles

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“An insincere and evil friend is more to be feared than a wild beast; a wild beast may wound your body, but an evil friend will wound your mind.” – Buddha

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“True friendship is never serene.”- Marquise de Sevigne

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“Be slow to fall into friendship, but when you are in, continue firm and constant.” – Socrates

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“Some people go to priests. Others to poetry. I to my friends.” – Virginia Woolf

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“True friends are like diamonds — bright, beautiful, valuable, and always in style.” – Nicole Richie

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“Friendship is delicate as a glass, once broken it can be fixed but there will always be cracks.” – Waqar Waqar Ahmed

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“When a woman becomes her own best friend, life is easier.” – Diane von Furstenburg

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“There is nothing I wouldn’t do for those who are really my friends. I have no notion of loving people by halves; it is not my nature.” – Jane Austen

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“There’s not a word yet, for old friends who’ve just met.” – Jim Henson

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.” – Oprah Winfrey

Friendship Quotes to Celebrate Your Friends

“Dear George: Remember no man is a failure who has friends.” – It’s a Wonderful Life

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