Last Updated on September 2, 2024
Falling in love comes without a warning. There’s no knowing what you’re jumping into once you’ve gone head over heels for someone. It just happens in the spur of the moment, doesn’t it?
We’re here to tell you that it’s okay. However, getting to know your significant other is a very important part of the relationship. Men are from Mars and women are from Venus is a self-explanatory metaphor; it tells us why there is so much disparity between the two genders. Initiating conversations or asking questions from your partner is a great way to know them.
Let me tell you something about men; you can live with them for over a decade and they’ll still pop up with a new trait. And all these years you’d wonder whether oblivion got the best of you! Men aren’t as vocal or conversational as women are. Well, not all men at least. Asking them questions is a great way to get them talking.
I can not emphasize enough the need for connecting and unsheathing layers of the unknown when it comes to relationships that involve intimate love. Knowing your plus one will give you an insight into their goals, beliefs, their personality, and whether or not they take you seriously! We’ve formulated sets of questions that will extract all the necessary information you need to know about your man.
I also came across an interesting video that all women should watch before they get married:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JJEF3jnJOjo
Level 1 Questions: The Initial Acquaintance Period
These 25 questions are for those who recently got into a relationship or are planning to move forward with one.
- What are your goals for the future?
- What is your biggest insecurity?
- What attracts you the most about a woman?
- Tell me about your best memory from childhood?
- Who are you the closest to in your family and why?
- What do your parents do?
- Tell me about your experience in high school?
- Are you passionate about your job?
- What do you like to eat?
- How do you spend your free time?
- Do you play any sports?
- Do you believe in God?
- Are you a spiritual person?
- Do you like to travel?
- What is your biggest pet peeve?
- Describe yourself in five words.
- If you had the option to erase one snippet from your life, what would it be?
- What’s one thing you can not live without?
- Are you sober? Have you ever had a drinking problem?
- What is your biggest fear?
- Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
- Which tv show do you binge-watch?
- Tell me the funniest moment of your life.
- Have you ever hated someone?
- Have you ever encountered something traumatic in your life?
Level 2 Questions: Breaking The Ice
It’s time to move over to some straightforward and mildly blunt conversations! And these questions will do just the trick.
- What’s the first thing you notice about a woman?
- What was the first thing you noticed about me?
- Have you ever been in a relationship before?
- Would you ever use tinder?
- What are your thoughts on cheating and two-timing?
- Tell me about the first crush you ever had.
- Have you ever lied to a woman?
- Do you feel nervous around me?
- What do you like about me the most?
- When was the last time you cried, and why?
- Do you feel insecure about women who make more money than you?
- Name something that makes you smile instantly
- What are you proud of most in your life?
- What is the bravest thing you have ever done?
- I want you to tell me you have never told anyone else.
- What’s the most embarrassing thing you have ever done?
- What do you think is your best physical feature?
- What is the kindest gesture you have made to a girl?
- In your opinion, what is the best compliment for a woman?
- If I handed you a sack full of money, what is the first thing you would do?
- Do you believe in Zodiac signs?
- What are your thoughts about religion and science?
- Have you lost someone who was really close to you?
- What is one valuable lesson that your parents taught you?
- What is one mistake your parents made that you never wish to make in your life?
- What’s the most used app on your phone?
- Are there any chores you enjoy doing?
- Would you prefer going out with friends or having a movie night at home?
- What is your guilty pleasure?
- Do you consider yourself romantic?
- Name something that makes you smile instantly.
Level 3 Questions: Getting Upclose And Personal
Time to heat things up a bit. These 10 questions might be a tad bit bold and ‘out-there’. Nevertheless, it’s important to ask these to make yourself aware of any red flags!
- Have you mentioned me to any of your friends?
- Would you consider yourself lucky to have me as your companion?
- Are we just friends or is it more than this?
- You know how complicated I am, do you still want me?
- When I’m not around, do you miss me?
- Is it okay if I post a picture with you on Instagram?
- Will you introduce me to your parents soon?
- What if I suddenly went missing, what would you do?
- Do you feel jealous when I talk to other guys?
- Do you trust me?
Level 4 Questions: Probing Deeper Into Men
Level 4 questions focus on the bigger picture. Now that it’s official that the two of you are into each other, it’s time to unravel some secrets and hidden sentiments!
- Why did you break up with your ex?
- Would you rather live alone in a million-dollar condo or a countryside house with me?
- Does it upset you when I talk to other guys?
- If you could take me anywhere in the world, where would it be?
- Do you like kids? Do you plan on having a family someday?
- What turns you off the most?
- Tell me your deepest darkest secrets.
- Explain to me what ‘love’ is.
- Do you think you’re in love with me? How?
- What’s the biggest turn-on for you?
Level 5 Questions: Discovering New Traits
Now that the two of you have spent a considerable amount of time together, you might as well play a truth or dare game with the following questions. They will bring you closer and give you a heads up for better future collaboration.
- Would you like to visit my parents someday?
- Would you rather explore the world with your friends or me?
- Are you okay with me having male friends?
- Do you want to marry me?
- If we end up marrying each other, would we move into our own apartment?
- What expectations do you have of me as a wife?
- Say I have to shift states because of my job, would you be able to keep up with a long-distance relationship?
- Are you happy in this relationship?
- Have you ever thought about cheating on me these past years?
- Was there a time when you thought of giving up on this relationship? If yes, why?
- Where do you see us in a span of ten years?
- If my parents ever fall sick, would you help me take care of them?
- How do you plan on splitting finances if we end up marrying each other?
- Would you vow to remain loyal and faithful to me forever?
- What infuriates you the most about me?
The FAQ Section
What is an interesting question to ask a guy?
- What’s the first thing you notice about a woman?
- What was the first thing you noticed about me?
- Have you ever been in a relationship before?
- Would you ever use tinder?
What do I talk to a guy about?
Get to know him by asking him about his interests, hobbies, beliefs, morals, and future goals.
